I met a man on Tinder about a month ago now and we have been on two dates. The first was for a walk along the seafront, I think the mutual attraction was there but we didn’t kiss after or even hug goodbye. Then the second (last weekend) was dinner and then drinks. After the second date I went back to his flat and after we had watched a film he went down on me and I also did the same on him. When I left I sent him a quick text to say he should let me know if he wanted to do something again soon and since then he has liked a few things of mine on social media but he hasn’t text me once. I feel confused as I would be happy with a casual thing and I think he would too, so then why isn’t he messaging me? Unless I was very very bad 