Hi,
Been with my husband 13 years and have 3 children. One is a baby. We've just been offered a new house with HA. Husband didn't like it from the start but we are over crowded where we are so this place is better for us, plus it has a garden which we don't have now. He eventually came round to the idea of it, then changed his mind after we let the kids see videos of it, then changed his mind back to signing for it and now he doesn't want it because we have to be out the current property in a week and he doesn't think we can pack up in a week when he works full time, we have a baby and I have a chronic pain illness. I am positive about it and said we can if we work as a team even though it will be stressful but he stuck to his guns. I called him selfish because it's better for the kids and they know about the house now. My middle child has been having anxiety issues since lockdown and I think changing our minds is cruel to him. I am sticking to my guns about wanting to go. We argued and he mocked my illness and left. He text me later today saying he believes we have had enough of each other and it's best for the kids if we break up (we had been off and on arguing prior to house offer). I said I hadn't given up but if he wants to then he needs to move out. He said he will make arrangements. We haven't spoken since other than him saying at some point we need to talk about a divorce. I said he can sort it as its his choice. I now can't move house anyway as I can't afford the moving costs and rent etc as well as carpets (none in property). So I'm stuck in this hell hole with 3 kids. He's now asleep on sofa. I feel like he's so selfish. I resent him so much. I'm heartbroken