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I boss my husband about. :(

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Misssweetheart · 17/04/2021 17:37

Im the worst wife ever... sitting here in tears because i finally see how other people view my relationship.
My husband is thin as a rake and a lovely man. David tennant but skinnier lol! I love him soo much. And he worships the ground i walk on. Literally will do ANYTHING i ask. He does the washing up, laundry, hoovering...etc. and doesnt mind.

Im currently pregnant with my 2nd and have always suffered back problems. And im overweight despite eating the same as him...so he often has to do things i cant do; quickly run upstairs to grab something, reach things on high shelves, cook dinner because of my morning sickness...

Im just sick and tired of having to ask him to do stuff and THERES ALWAYS a reason/excuse on my part.
Im embarrassed.
Sadly... the more my husband has appeased me the bigger or lazier ive gotten...
I try to be more proactive but i genuinely am in pain....

Im the worst.

OP posts:
Bluntness100 · 18/04/2021 08:09

@rattlemehearties

It sounds like you have antenatal depression.

Have you spoken to your DH to see what he thinks about all this? He might love helping you. Doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

Honestly you can’t be diagnosing people on the Internet. The ops not even come back never mind said if she’s always been like this,
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