I think dh & I are going to split up. Not sure what to do.

[SparklePrincess]

He admitted yesterday that he doesnt love me & hasnt been happy for years. My issues with him are he refuses to put me or the children first & I feel like an unpaid unappreciated housekeeper in my own home. He comes home from work & does his own thing. Doesnt even speak to me when were in the same room. Its like a kind of mental torture. Ive put up with it because I want the children to have a so called proper family & I honestly have no idea what will happen to us. The split seems inevitable now that he has admitted what was blatantly obvious really.
What do we do? How will we manage? I dont know where to start. All I want is a family.

I would like to try & make things work for the sake of the children, but as he is not prepared to even try & refuses point blank to see Relate I dont see any other option but to sell up & move on with our lives. There is no way I could stay here & continue to be treated in such a bad way, it would do the dc no favours & I quite fancy keeping my sanity.
In a way im quite excited at the thought of starting again just me & the dd`s. I am also very lucky in I will have a decent amount of cash from the sale of our house to start my new life with. Im very sad for the dc though, & disappointed in him that hes not prepared to make an effort to save their feelings if nothing else.
I would love to move out of this house right now, but I have nowhere to go & would get no help with rent as I would of made us intentionally homeless. There is no way he would move out. As far as he is concerned hes done nothing wrong & if anyone should leave its me.