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Affair with coworker

5 replies

k676mc · 09/04/2021 10:22

I recently had an affair with a woman from work me and my husband are splitting up not just because of my affair but his too and some other reasons..
I haven't really spoken to the woman since we ended the affair but I miss her so much and was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to get talking again I've tried a few times to contact but because it's about work then it's just a simple conversation.
I want to know if she still feels the same any advice on how to do this thanks...

OP posts:
PriestessofPing · 09/04/2021 10:39

Didn’t you post about this and the woman you have had an affair with is in a relationship? Tbh i’d concentrate on the split with your husband not this woman.

youvegottenminuteslynn · 09/04/2021 10:49

I remember your previous thread.

Unless she's now left her relationship and is single, I think enough damage has been done hasnt it?

Is she still in a relationship?

Time to move on.

Ruminating2020 · 09/04/2021 11:12

You've posted about this before. I say give her space for a variety of reasons.
She is also in a relationship herself.
You work with her and any unwanted conversation can be viewed as harassment.

lunar1 · 09/04/2021 11:16

If she's in a relationship you need to move on. You will end up without a job if you pursue this abs she complains to HR.

sallydontlivehere · 09/04/2021 13:40

I sounds like she is no longer interested in you sexually and was only interested in a short fling.
If you can't accept this then I thing you would be best finding a job elsewhere and forgetting about her.
Are you single?
If you are, could you start dating other people and try and move on?

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