He dated 10+ women at the same time - revenge?!

[Danielletracey]

Hi guys, please help. My best friend just found out her boyfriend of 2 years has been dating at least 10 other women while they were together (some of them as long as 2-3 years). They are all talking and upset. Any idea how to confront him? Figure some revenge? They are all worried he will continue that with others, or maybe there is even more women ... advice appreciated! Terrible story !

Its April Fools Day.....

Omg I wish I posted this on different date.
Some of them were in serious exclusive relationships. Scary is also that he slept with most without condoms (saying he is only sleeping with them)

Mass ghosting
STD tests for all
Move on from him

@youvegottenminuteslynn

Mass ghosting STD tests for all Move on from him

Yes Anything over the top isn’t worth the hastle.

Have any of them had children with him?

Shame he knows, otherwise it would be time to pull the old fake pregnancy test joke on him. With all of them.

But he knows so he won't believe it. Just block and move on.

I think it’s ashame he knows because I’d have said go down the fake STI route. Not sure how to get him back if he knows though.

@Hazelnutlatteplease

Theres only 7 nights in a week....

Maths has never been high on my list of academic achievements, but I was thinking the same.

Yes but she said 1 night or day and explained a pattern that sounds like seeing 2 in a 24 hour period so that means his capacity was 14 or 10 if only weekdays.

so that means his capacity was 14 or 10 if only weekdays.

So when his "partners" are thinking it's "round one", for him its "round Christ only knows"!!

Let's just hope he has a good memory for names!!

If this is true he’s disgusting. Why would the women accept this though? They have to look at themselves. Allowing unprotected sex. Only seeing him one day a week? Surely they must want more than that. How old is he and how old are they?

Sell the story to Take a Break.

Revenge and a warning to others all in one.

and during lockdown too 🤔

Is this him (left)?

He was seeing some of them during the day - because some had children and could arrange only when kids at school.
He did not have children with any of them.
I think once a week can be enough if you live further (are busy) my friend works and study full time so was appreciative he understands once a week is enough + they’ve been on holidays together twice so she felt like it’s serious ...

If this is real, then let’s be honest, several of these women will have known he’s seeing other women, and at least 4 or 5 of them will be doing the pick me dance right now, determined to win their prize.

There will be no “mass dumping” or “mass ghosting”.

The best thing your friend can do is delete and block him, and not give a shit what the other women do, because this isn’t the movies and he’ll still end up with a few of them on the go.

Oh Shirley, oh Deborah, oh Julie, oh Jane
I wrote so many songs about you
I forget your name, I forget your name
Jennifer, Alison, Phillipa, Sue, Deborah, Annabel, too.....

Or is this a mambo no 5 situation instead?

Yes to STD tests and then if any are found, I wonder if it is actually a police matter. I know if you spread HIV it can be, not sure about other diseases.

I'd find it difficult to condemn if a large aggressive man went to said man and caused him harm. Or a large notice on his door or on his car, or if all ten went to his workplace and let his colleagues know.

I assume this man is not Boris Johnson, is he?

@BadLad

Is this him (left)?

Relevance? When Charlie Sheen came out as living with HIV he also shared that he’s on medication and undetectable which means no risk to any sexual partners.

The character of Charlie Harper, not the actor Charlie Sheen.

OP, we're not guys....