I've been married for 19 years. Have 2 teenage children. 3 weeks ago my daughter saw a message on her dad's phone from a woman saying I love you. Not from me. She was beside herself as whether she should tell me or not but she did. I eventually got it out of my husband. He was bored and needed to see if he still "had it". He'd been texting a woman starting a chat before getting more explicit. He even sent pics of himself and our kids to her. He has changed his story about this 3 times and when I asked if he's stopped and he says yes. I find out a day later he's had several on the go on these websites and has had to let each down gently. Never mind about my feelings or hurt. He was even texting this woman when we were on a family walk. It's not been the greatest marriage with DV involved. I just have such a rollercoaster of emotions at the moment. I'm so sad and upset.