So me and DP have been together for 10 years we have 2 children one of which was born a few weeks ago. I've been feeling a bit lonely and been busy with both kids so I look forward to when theyre finally down for the night and we can spend a bit of time together but recently when both kids are asleep he's either been lying next to me on his phone and I get fed up and just go to sleep or he decides he's going to go play the xbox down stairs. I don't mind a couple of nights him doing this but I just feel like I'm second best if that....