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Online dating rant

9 replies

Soniapa · 09/03/2021 21:30

I feel so lonely. 3 years single. 34 and no kids. Trying online dating throughout last year and a half and no relationship yet. I feel like I’ll be single forever. I know people say it’s a game of numbers. But I’ve been on about 30 dates. Kept seeing about 4 guys for a month but nothing ever goes pass that Sad. Please tell me I’m not alone. Tell me I will fall in love again ....Sad

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Singleton456 · 09/03/2021 22:23

I’ve just wrote a very similar post. 33 and feeling hopeless. Online is so ruthless, so many time wasters, ghosting, and lies.

muppette · 09/03/2021 22:33

Hi guys, yes you will find love, and you're the very reason I'm developing a totally different new dating app.

I'll keep you posted! Have faith 🌹🧘‍♀️

sunnyzweibrucken · 09/03/2021 22:54

I never did except for one and he cheated on me after a couple of years.

Hopefully you will have better luck than I did, you still have a lot of time to meet someone (I don’t)

SJane910374 · 09/03/2021 23:04

Stay strong

Chocolate123 · 09/03/2021 23:19

It can happen but it's not easy. Lots of weird people out there but also good guys. Met the man of my dreams after a few years OLD. Gave up many a time but kept going back as I really wanted to meet someone.

Ardvark111 · 10/03/2021 09:53

4 guys in 1 month,!! If anything you should be taking a break from dating .. 😂 there is somebody for everybody when the time is right he will come into your life,!!

Roberta268 · 10/03/2021 12:28

I went on over 100 first dates over 3 years before I met my lovely DP. Don’t give up!

Laeta · 10/03/2021 12:53

@Roberta268 ... I'm trying to keep hoping!

5 years single approx 200 dates! But just no chemistry! So many nice guys about but just can't click.

It's difficult as most guys my age are really old, I know I'm old but not ready for pipe and slippers yet.

It's horrible I feel I losing the best years of my sexual peak to this desert!! Hahaha

I mean there has been a few guys that I like, one wanted kids (13 years younger than me), and a coupe of assholes.

But feel I'm going to be single forever. :(

But would rather be single than just make do!!

Roberta268 · 10/03/2021 13:21

@Laeta, it can be so discouraging, but I agree that it’s better to be single than with someone who doesn’t treat you properly.

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