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Original poster

I've gone off my relationship

12 replies

Trina001 · 09/03/2021 15:30

Basically just this.

OP posts:

marsmars · 09/03/2021 15:33

Leave it then

SooMoony · 09/03/2021 15:35

You've fallen out of love? Or realised that you never really loved them?

bookworm34 · 09/03/2021 15:36

Leave then?

MaMaD1990 · 09/03/2021 15:37

What's the question?

Original poster

Trina001 · 09/03/2021 15:38

It's so horrible to say but I think I've realised I never did. There was something at the beginning but I'm not sure it was love.

OP posts:

HollowTalk · 09/03/2021 15:39

Can you get out of it easily? Do you live together? Have joint finances? Children?

MaMaD1990 · 09/03/2021 15:40

Well if its just you two, just end it and move on.

ShadierThanaPalmTree · 09/03/2021 15:40

Okay

Original poster

Trina001 · 09/03/2021 15:42

We live together and have a dd together. No joint finances. I'm just worried that when we do separate how he will look after dd.

OP posts:

MaMaD1990 · 09/03/2021 15:43

What do you mean by how he will look after your DD? Is he abusive or do you mean how will he look after her juggling work etc?

Original poster

Trina001 · 09/03/2021 15:45

After we got together he told me he done drugs and only stopped when he met me, I'm worried he will start again or if he ever actually stopped and i dont want dd around that.

OP posts:

MaMaD1990 · 09/03/2021 15:47

You should probably look into organisations that can help you out in terms of housing if you need it and steel up for a battle over custody in court. As the saying goes, get your ducks in a row. I don't have any experience with this sort of thing so hopefully someone will be able to point you in the right direction and be more specific around support for you and DD.

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