....I finally had sex with a really nice guy I've been dating...it was a little uncomfortable but not painful, but when I went to the toilet there were spots of blood and still is this morning...should this happen? I'm presuming my first degree tear has split a little again, but cant see down there! (it just feels sore in that same area). My tear is over three years old though but I presume it will still be weak in that area?...I've only had sex a couple of times during that time and that was 3 years ago..that was with my now ex husband so I'm can't remember if it happened then or not and obviously wouldn't have been worried with him!
I feel so embarrassed as this was our first time...I don't know whether to broach the subject with him in case he thinks maybe I was on my period or something!
Anyone else experienced this please?