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Sexual compatibility

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shouldibesad · 18/02/2021 18:42

Hi

I've been with my partner for 19 months and only once during that time have we had sexual in the evening. All other relationships I've been in the man wants to go to bed at night and I hated morning was but because the sex was so good with my now dp I started to enjoy morning sex but I miss the evening romance. I suspect it's because he drinks and smokes too much. I don't even think he can get an erection at night 😭I've raised the issue and it ends in an argument as he says I'm having a go and undermining him.

Anyone????

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FortunesFave · 18/02/2021 20:22

Tbh if you're otherwise happy and having sex regularly, I wouldn't rock the boat. Nothing's perfect and it seems by pushing for evening sex you're just upsetting the apple cart a bit...

FortunesFave · 18/02/2021 20:23

But romance is a different thing...there's nothing stopping you having a cuddle on the sofa is there? Does he drink too much even for that?

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