I just read I survived by Victoria Cilliers whose husband tried to kill her by tampering with her parachute.
She was so brave and her survival was extraordinary.
I could weep because everyday I read relationship threads like this and can see the cheating, gaslighting, bullying, cheating and lying. I had twp awful husbands myself and a terrible long term relationship with men like this and like Victoria just didn't recognise it for such a long time, just built up my relationships as perfect in my head whilst lying to myself everyday.
Its a sobering read about relationships.