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feeling so lonely

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Aghhhhhhhhhh · 13/02/2021 19:44

Feeling really lonely tonight, My DP left me on Wednesday after I woke him up to ask for some help to which he replied no and then we had an argument which resulted in him banging the doors and breaking my toilet seat, and being called various names and being told im pathetic etc, I KNOW that the relationship is over for good, but im struggling with the idea of being single and alone, I dont really have any friends, Ive tried to reach out to some of my old mates tonight for a catch up and they either ignore me or send short abrupt messages and then stop replying, I feel completely alone. My eldest child is too busy gaming and chatting to his mates to bother with me and my youngest is with his Dad (ex DP) til tomorrow, Im just feeling really down, realising that my relationship was emotionally abusive and that Ive now got to deal with the fact im alone, it sucks!!

OP posts:
Itstimetoquit · 13/02/2021 20:12

I'm alone too feel free to message me x

DancesWithCatsnDogs · 13/02/2021 21:16

Sorry you're feeling like this. It will pass. You know he was no good for you and I bet you'd rather be on your own than have a repeat of the other night, yes?
I could suggest countless ways to distract yourself but if it's a man you want, then get out dating again. Start up a few chats on OLD to cheer yourself up, if that works for you.

havecourage8bekind · 13/02/2021 21:38

I've got a thread on here called "loneliness after separating" feel free to come join us. You're not alone xxx

Happycat1212 · 13/02/2021 21:45

You’ve only been single for 5 mins, I’ve been single for 4 years, trust me it gets easier

lothermand · 13/02/2021 22:58

It's rubbish OP, I've joined the loneliness thread too. It will get better I promise Thanks

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