He's took me for a mug

[iwanteggfriedricefuckingpronto]

See my last post. In brief he's a complete and utter prick. I have FINALLY ended the relationship. Low and be-fucking-hold he wants all the fucking benefits of a gf/partner even tho I don't want him. He has continued to (what I would classify it as even if he doesn't) abuse me in the previous few weeks touching my breasts constantly, poking my private parts with his foot when I try to stand up from the sofa, undoing my bra when I'm sleeping, waking up to him playing with my nipples despite me expressing numerous times that I HATE it, to name a few. Makes me feel physically ill. If I sleep elsewhere he searches for me in the night and makes me come to bed. Tip of the ice berg in his controlling behaviour!!

I'm not sure if it's mentioned in my previous posts (see previous thread for name changes) that he used to be a coke head and his last relationship ended due to him picking females from his dealer to have sex with for a fee. Which I absolutely do not agree with.

Anyway, I ended it a few weeks ago, he's bought me jewellery, persuaded me to 'enjoy' each other's company until he leaves. I said I'd give him as long as it took to find somewhere else, to which he said would take months. As if I'm fucking stupid. Well I move in a month so that was to be the set deadline. But tonight, despite living under MY roof rent/bill free the despicable prick has disappeared to his coke head mates for the night, dressed in his very expensive clothes (Xmas present from me no less), shaven, to 'help move doors'. This was at 3 o clock. I don't understand why he thinks I'm thick! Who the fuck goes to do manual labour in expensive clothes. God knows if he's fucking a prostitute for a fee. Filthy fucking perverted prick. How dare he! I am seething. Yes I ended the relationship but while he's living under my roof - that I pay for!!!!!- The least I expect is a little decency and fucking respect. Please excuse my language.

Absolute fucking nob cheese 🧀

Well done OP, reading how he assaults you every day is really upsetting. I can’t imagine living like that, so sending you my utmost sympathies.
You’ve changed the situation now, stay strong, we’re all here for you.

Keep him out op.
Police if need be.

Good luck op.

I would expect some drama tho, when he comes back thinking he will come in as normal. Or in response to your message.

The key thing is, not to open the door and to stay in back where he cant see you. Text him saying, if you don't take your stuff and leave, I'm going to ring the police and when they do my risk assessment, they will ask me about sexual matters and I'll tell them you touch me against my will.

Then ignore what else he does and dont get into a back and forth.

If he tries to break the door in, ring the police urgently.

Well I don’t know you’d expect respect and consideration from someone who is a rapist - let’s not beat around the bush here, that’s what it’s called when you have sex with women who have been pimped out for drugs.

He is scum. Utter garbage.

I’m glad you’ve finally found the courage to kick this piece of shit to the kerb.

Who gives a fuck if he’s off seeing someone else, in his designer clothes at 3am. Who gives a fuck as long as he’s not in your house abusing you and being around your kids.

Well rid OP, I hope for your sake and your kids sake you can stick to you word and block all contact from here on out

He was with a woman. What a complete cunt.

Well I hope you haven't let him in. He has put you at risk of Covid.

Well of course he was.

I hope you are sticking with the kicking him out plan.

Get rid! You deserve so much better than this

@iwanteggfriedricefuckingpronto

He was with a woman. What a complete cunt.

Has he left with his belongings now?

Please don't let him back in the house. He is dangerous and is regularly sexually assaulting you in your home, with your children present in that home.

What a prick,has he collected his belongings x

He's took some he's coming back for some more any minute now

Make sure you get his key. And an sti test ASAP.

What a dick. Hope he's just moving his stuff and not giving you any trouble.

Do not let him into the house. Is there a male friend or relative you can ask to be there? Have your phone to hand and call the police right away if he kicks off or won't leave.

Why are you letting him still live with you and treat you that way? You can get rid of the bellend you know.

What an asshole,hope your ok opx

If he kicks off call the police. Well done for kicking him out

@iwanteggfriedricefuckingpronto

He was with a woman. What a complete cunt.

Thank goodness he's not your problem any more.

What a nobber.

Hopefully he's gotten his things and fucked off for good.

Day 1 of a peaceful life without that trash in it.

Did he come back ok,hope your ok x

Well done OP. Did he just accept it and take his stuff? Hope all is ok.

How's things op x