Husband calls me fat.

[Olaf14]

I don’t really know where to begin, I am 39 weeks pregnant and have a 23 month old. We have been married for four years and over this time my husband has became abusive.

The current thing he abuses me about is my weight, he calls me fat, fatty, look at you jiggling about, you are massive etc. I am a size 12 and my weight gain through pregnancy has been normal, midwife is not concerned about it. I’ve explained this to my husband and his response is we’ll see what your body is like when the baby is born, you’ve always been fat.

I’m so insecure about my weight now and I have hated the changes to my body during pregnancy, I feel uncomfortable eating around my husband and I honestly feel so low.

I don’t know how to cope anymore.

This man is abusive. You must leave him before he destroys you. You will feel so much better.

Leave it's downhill from there

^ that’s it, in a bit shell.

Listen to the part of you that says ‘no, this is not ok, it is unacceptable for my partner to speak to me this way’.

I wouldn’t even bother arguing though - he just sounds horrible, what would be the point? Just getting my ducks in a row. There are some nice people out there, fun, positive, who will appreciate you for who you are. Do lot waste one more day on this unpleasant jerk.

not waste

and nut shell, sorry!

Good luck for the future