Am I a lesbian?

[Mymuckydreams]

I don’t fancy my husband anymore. I have dreams about fictional women getting it on with me and it’s exciting. The most amazing feelings down below come from dreams and never have in reality with men or masturbation. Am I a lesbian? Do straight women have these feelings too?

Homoerotic dreams are quite normal and do not necessarily reflect your sexuality.

Do you want a full blown relationship with a women or is it just sexual fantasy?

have you read the lesbian master doc? might be worth a read if you’re questioning

Strangers on the internet won't be able to tell you what your sexuality is OP.

@cliftonbear

have you read the lesbian master doc? might be worth a read if you’re questioning

this is really good advice, you might find it gives a bit more clarity

I’ve dreamt of sex with both males and females (mainly celebrities) and with women it always ‘feels’ better. Maybe you’re bicurious?

I think the best way to figure this out is could you imagine yourself in a relationship with another woman or is it purely sexual?

Why do people jump straight to the opposite??
I am a lesbian? Is he gay?

You are at most bi at this point. Loads of straight women watch or get sexually excited from women and still date men.

Do you fancy any men? Have you ever? Do you enjoy sex with men? Have you ever?

Unless you've been lying back and thinking of England your whole adult life, I'd say you're bisexual at most.

@Redflaggs

Why do people jump straight to the opposite?? I am a lesbian? Is he gay?

You are at most bi at this point. Loads of straight women watch or get sexually excited from women and still date men.

100% this. I am a little confused about my sexuality but I desperately overthink it for want of an answer.

I think it’s impossible to answer. I find lesbian images and the thought of a lesbian encounter quite erotic. Am I gay? No I’m not. I’m 100% straight. A fantasy is what it is. Nothing wrong with that at all.