Something I’m unsure about with boyfriend, his previous girlfriends and liking naked pictures.

[Whatisthis83]

I’ve been with my boyfriend 5 months and sometimes something bothers me. I’m probably being and absolute doughnut about it but still it gets to me.

I’ve seen pics of his previous girlfriends and he has also shown me profile pics of girls he has chatted to in the past off dating websites. The other day his phone broke and he used an old phone and it had previous girls pictures on so he showed me. I don’t really want to see these pics. But every single girl he has ever chatted or been with have a particular style...nothing like me. Now I’m curious really why he is with me.

He also likes Pics of naked girls on Facebook and again absolutely nothing like me. He even showed me a pic one of those girls from dating site sent him of her breasts I didn’t want to see that. They all big breasted and I’m not. Too be honest they aren’t tasteful at all. I’m quite a shy person and sexually not into dressing like that and sprawling my legs open.

I’m a bit put off really how he views women and how different I am to what he looks at.

You buggered off, op ?

No I’m still here. I think I’m in agreement with the poster who said I was a safe bet for him. Yes he has sleazy views of women. He isn’t abusive not every man is abusive who looks at naked women. He doesn’t make me act like them, dress like them or make any comments about my body. But his viewing of then has had an effect on me and has changed the way I view him. Like I said we met and have a lot in common, get on well, laugh, joke, he is very nice in other ways BUT this is extremely off putting.

Me telling him not to look at naked pics won’t change the way he thinks about women and that it’s appropriate to ever be derogatory like he is at times. So I could say it’s effecting me but probably a waste of time.

He's one of those men who will look at half naked girls, like their pictures that but they don't want 'their woman' to be like that. He could turn out to be controlling too.
But anyway, the immaturity would put me off OP, come on you know a grown man wouldn't do that

I’m really not sure why he’s showing you these things. Have you ever been sent dick pics OP? How would he react if you whipped some pics out of your ex’s private parts?

Get rid, firstly he’s showing peoples private images that were sent to him (he sounds like a horny teenager) and not only is belittling your relationship but he’s also showing he has 0 respect for women. Please don’t send him any pictures!

Yes dump. He's an immature idiot.

Practice saying what the fuck to things that men do that you don't like.

Example: boyfriend shows you girls on his phone naked or otherwise.

You give him a puzzled look and say, why the fuck are you showing me that shite? Why would you think I'd ever want to see that?

Practice these types of comments.

@Whatisthis83 don’t waste any more time trying to figure out why this sleazy man behaves in such a disrespectful way. You are better off being single than dating someone so awful.