Hi now ex partner of 5 years has just told me something and I cant get my head round it.
Hes suffered from premature ejaculation he says all his life, he has always said he has a high sex drive.
He wont initiate sex, he says that he hates disappointing me, he doesnt enjoy sex.
Hes told me by text yesterday, that for the last 20 years he has trained himself to cum quickly, this is why he suffers with PE.
He said he will/ has been know to masturbate 2/3 times a day in the toilet at work, he wont tell me has been going on since weve been together or living together.
I'm shocked, I'm feeling so low about this
I've felt unattractive and rejected for a long time. He wont tell me how long or if he is referring to the last 6 years of us being together
I tried to work with him, read lots about it, techniques, training, I've bought him creams, sprays etc.
I wasnt bothered, but he kept saying he would speak to a DR, kept cancelling.
I'm devastated. It's like hes almost been cheating on me.
Now I have no issue with masturbation in a relationship, it's his body.
But this has been by the sounds of it every day. He would rather do that than be intimate with me.
And I'm not just talking PIV.
Anything else, which I enjoyed just as much.
Help me get my head round this please