Who does he look at when he plays with it?

[Bassarid]

I am not criticising. I think he does a bit (a lot!) and I would love to know what works for him, but there really isn't much in terms of communication.

Don't think I should ask,

or should I?

Look at what?

Ask but make sure, it dosent end in a full blown argument

do you mean you think he watches porn and you want to know what type?

Oh, who does he look at.

Hopefully you are talking about porn.
There are quite a few different catorgories, are you thinking this could aid your love life, or know what his preferences are compared to you.

If so, you sound a little bit too accomodating.
It is his privilege to be having sexual relations with you, he should be finding out what you like.

Sorry, that was a stupid question, and badly worded!

What I wanted to know was who he fancies, but I realise that I am not going to get any satisfaction on that😟

Eh?

Do you mean what does he watch / look at when he masturbates? It's a lot easier to just say it outright!

Porn is usually a fantasy, it doesn't mean he actually wants to do whatever he's watching in real life