I have name changed for this to avoid anyone identifying me, but I am mystified as to my DPs behaviour and it's making me feel like I'm losing my mind. The latest incident is: he was out until 8pm when he said he would be back earlier so I didnt make dinner. When he got in I said I wasn't starting a roast at that time but offered to make fish instead. He basically grumbled he would look to see what else there was & I said fine. I put DC to bed & he has now gone to bed & I went in and asked if he wants food he said no. Despite telling me he was hungry!? He also just went into bed and starting watching tv without saying anything. Basically I can't figure out what he could possible be annoyed about other than dinner!? My reluctance to cook was the amount of time to cook the meat but there was nothing stopping him making it if he wanted to wait!? Instead he is now sulking in bed, I'm annoyed in the sitting room and I feel like I'm being punished? Also, he works abroad and will be leaving tomorrow to go back to work so it feels worse. Is this normal behaviour?? Am I going insane? This is just one example of the way he behaves when he feels I've done something wrong but doesn't tell me. He will want to be fine and happy tomorrow but every time he does this I love him less and less.