How do you know that you've fallen out of love?

[bruces]

I'm confused about how i feel about my dh,he seems to annoy me most of the time,he can be rude,arrogant and self centred,but other times the most thoughtfull partner you could ask for.
Sometimes i look at him and i dislike him,but i can't work out why.i feel i want us to part,but if you ask why,it'd be difficult to answer,think i'm a bit scared about what people will say,we're seen as one of the strongest relationships going,also how will i tell our 3 children?

i think you've fallen out when you don't have to ask yourself that question any more.

do you want to save your relationship?

I really don't know, think i'm scared of making the leap .