Me and my husband agreed after the birth of our last child last summer that he would get a vasectomy. He called the gp in November after I asked him why he hadn't called to talk to them about it yet. He got very defensive at that time but called them the same day out of earshot. He showed me he had called them but he's heard nothing about it since. After two months I'm starting to wonder if he even called about that? I've asked him and he gets insulted and says of course. They apparently said they would refer him and send information in a leaflet to him. No leaflet came and he's heard nothing. Is this normal? Could covid have pushed it back? I want to ask him again but don't want to nag. Every so often he will say he's going to find out what's taking so long but never does and always says he forgets. The pill isn't suiting me and I don't want to be the only one taking this seriously after we both agreed he should have the snip. We haven't had sex since baby has been born and altogether it's been a full year since we had intercourse. He won't even buy condoms and keeps saying he will and doesn't. I feel very unwanted. He isn't cheating either because he's at home all day working from home. What would you do?