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Advice needed .. hook up sites ?

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Bree25 · 08/01/2021 10:11

Been with my partner 12 years . We now have 3 children , it’s a long story I wasn’t snooping I was in his emails trying to locate an old email from years ago that he new I was looking for , anyway in the process lots of emails started popping up from 2017 , at the time I would have been about 4 months pregnant with our second child , we wasn’t living together anymore at this point as in 2016 we took a 6 month break for reasons nothing to do with infidelity we had just become in a rut, was renting and decided to both move home with our parents and we separated, anyway we was in a relationship and was planning to move back in together later in the year which we did , our son was born and life was amazing!
Anyway back to the story I found these emails from websites such as fuck a stranger etc , seemed to be a few different sites but they was all linked together like the same email and password was linked to all these sites and the layout was same on all of them , obviously I was worried and took a picture , so last night I logged in using his email and the password I know he uses for everything , the first one I logged into was a very basic profile , no information added , not contacted anyone , no number or contact details uploaded , just a fake name , fake date of birth and 1 message in inbox saying your profile picture has been accepted , when I clicked on the picture it was his mate not him! So then I logged in to the second website I think that was called fancy a quickie , again it was basic , no info on it and the same fake name and date of birth and once again a picture of his mate but this picture was different but you could tell it was from the same night , he had the same clothes on and was holding a pint , I could see they were set up late at night and I started to think phew he’s been mucking about drunk in pub with his mates doing it as a joke or something! But then the last website I logged into was the same fake name date of birth etc no contact with anyone but this time the picture was infact of my other half! It was a picture from 2017 I remember him taking it as it was his profile picture on Facebook for about a year. I honestly do not no what to think ? I can see no contact has been made and there is no way he could have contacted anyone through these sites to be honest after googling it seems abit of a scam website wants you to pay to access more which he never did , there is nothing else apart from these dates in 2017 , what the hell should I do and what do you all think ??

OP posts:
Bree25 · 08/01/2021 20:47

Any ideas ?

OP posts:
Lozzerbmc · 08/01/2021 23:29

Have you had reason to suspect before now? Was this when you had broken up? It doesnt sound like a serious look for a hook up but this may not be the case. You’d need to be careful though as sadly I know they often do this again even after being caught... his reaction when you confront him will tell you...

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