Hi all.
New here but looking for advice.
I was with my partner yesterday after a few days of hurt feelings about something we both reacted to badly. I thought we had briefly spoken about it and moved on.
After not getting I love you said back to me for the last 2 days, we said it last night.
Everything was going okay until she asked if it hurt me that I didn’t say it back after I had told her my feelings.
Of course I was honest and said yes, you know it does. To which she said she wanted to see how long it would take to annoy me before she said it back. I asked why she was playing games like that. The subject was brushed off but today I’m still hurt that she does this. Both of us have said how were scared of getting hurt, being rejected etc so the feelings on this are know from both sides.
I just don’t know how to deal with this and would appreciate some advice. Not going to see her probably for a few days and want to have the conversation in person.