I really don't know where to even start. We have been married for 3years both aged 30 with 2young children 2years and 8 months old..... So to just stat firstly I do absolutely everything all the house work cooking and looking after the children. Husband works Monday -Friday until 4pm.is.off all weekend and doesn't help my babies wake around 5-6am im the one up every weekend with them while he sleeps to 12pm then comes.down and starts that certain things aren't done etc shouts at the kids constantly where my 2 year hardly likes him. He always has attitude with me... Gets worse few months ago he was drunk and I didn't want to be intimate he got cross climbed on me and put his hands around my throat . Last month we fought he started screaming for me to shut up or he will make me and I didn't he came at me push we me I pushed back and he came again grab my neck/throat pushed me. He keeps saying he's going to leave m e if we don't be intamate more. Sorry using tablet to write this... My children are seeing this and it's made eldest cry he's ripped saturated off the walls out holes in my doors etc...at my wits end but scared to leave and be alone