He's always asleep

[KinseyWinsey]

H is always asleep at every opportunity.

At the weekends, he will wake up at any time between 9-10am, sometimes later.

He will then have breakfast and go back to bed to watch Netflix and fall asleep again.

He will get up in the afternoon but is back in bed by 5pm for a couple of hours.

He's wfh at moment so if work is busy, he'll get up at 9am and log on straightway. If work is quiet, as it seems to be lot of the time at the moment, he will follow the weekend pattern.

I've asked him if he feels unwell, if he needs to see a doctor etc but he takes this as me being unpleasant and will ask me the same if I have had a nap on the first day of my period or after I've done everything like walked dogs, shopped, cooked, tidied etc.

It's so boring. And he talks about our life together when we are retired. It's going to be dull as ditchwater, isn't it?

*you’re

Do you have children?

It could be sleep apnoea, it could be diabetes or probably other things. You need to get him to check those out before blaming him too much.

In the meantime, the key question is what his nighttime sleep is like. Does he sleep a normal night and then all this in the day as well (suggesting a medical problem)? Or is he up late every night gaming or whatever (suggesting a behavioural problem)?