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Xmas ruined

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notdoingit · 29/12/2020 01:04

Soz in advance. Will try to keep it short. In toxic relationship. Have made mind up to leave and just need help sticking by my guns.
Husband disregard for covid rules. Allowed 25 yr old son into the house pre Xmas day. Found out his gf has covid.

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notdoingit · 02/01/2021 07:38

Thank you all.
I'm lucky there are no bills in my name. We do have a joint account but I have my own too.
My sister has said she'll help us move everything. She's much more tougher than I.

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notdoingit · 13/01/2021 12:10

So I moved out a week ago. Living for now with parents.
It's just hitting me now.
I know I've done the right thing. But I'm feeling the loss today and missing my ex even though I know he's toxic. When does it get better?

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Cherrysoup · 13/01/2021 18:13

It will get better very soon! Make sure you have separated any finances.

starsinyourpies · 13/01/2021 18:23

Well done you!!

billy1966 · 13/01/2021 20:59

Well done OP.
You were very brave and continue to be so.

Flowers
Itstimetoquit · 13/01/2021 21:08

Well done,it does get better with time,stay strong and take it one day at a time x

MondayYogurt · 13/01/2021 21:25

Try to focus on your daughter instead. That poor child has been bottling up her fears for 5 years. She must be going through a lot. You can help her and take your mind off him. He doesn't deserve one second of your time.

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