DH is totally obsessed with our friend, and it is starting to really upset me.
He has form for this. He would never cheat (not confident enough enough of his performance in bed for one thing), and I know he loves me and would struggle without me, but he periodically has crushes on other women and simply cannot keep these to himself. This one has been on and off for years.
He's currently going on and on about her. What she cooked for Christmas. How her house is decorated. How she lays her table. What she wears... It's an exhausting case of mentionitis.
Friend is lovely, but is lapping up the attention. Putting photos on the group chat. I'm not actually remotely impressed or jealous of her beautiful life, because I'm not overly bothered about material things, and I like my own house etc. She's told me many times that she has major issues with compulsive shopping, and she makes her life beautiful because she is so insecure in other ways. It's a control thing for her.
I'm just fed up with DH's attitude. He struggles with mental health (had severe clinical depression over the first lockdown), including OCD, and I suspect ADHD.
Not going to leave him, but he is driving me up the bloody wall.