Bit of a personal one is this normal ?

[Knitknitknit77]

Been on Mumsnet ages but name changed as this is a bit of a weird one and slightly embarrassing to ask
Is it Normal for a partner of 10 years to ask if you fancy some fun ( sex ) it's his way of instigating it! Or he will say are you going straight to sleep or do you want a cuddle - which is also his way of asking if I want sex, then he will ask how I want it ie position ( sex ) it just doesn't feel natural to me but not sure if it is or not ?

If you are dressed or partially dressed l find taking your knickers off and throwing them at the other person can drop a hint!!! Try it.

@StarlightLady

Hmm, not so sure. Tried that with a very attractive priest as he read the sermon and it didn't go down at all well. Nor did he.

My ex use to just say ‘sex?’ And we either did or didnt.