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Am I right to be upset

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Createusername · 12/12/2020 11:25

Bit long but will try to keep it brief. I don't know what I'm after here maybe just trying to vent..

My daughter was hospitalised 3 months ago severely ill with Sepsis, a month later she was back in with the same thing.. and since then she's still not fully recovered. She is now on long term antibiotics..
She was seen by drs earlier this week as she had some symptoms and they sent samples off to be tested. I got a call lastnight to say she had yet another infection but needed different antibiotics as the ones she's on are resistant. Just before this time I was messaging my boyfriend of 3 yrs and i messaged saying give me a minute just taking a call... half hour later after I was done speaking with drs telling me about the new infection and telling me keep a close eye any change in her sort prescription etc .. i had a good cry and was gutted she's still feeling poorly and doesn't seem to be any let up... I text him again saying it was drs and she's got another infection and that i had been in tears,... he replied several hours later being really blunt saying ""well its good news ain't it she's getting more antibiotics, I dunno why your worrying and pulling your hair out, she's fine she's been going school and if she was soo ill you wouldn't have sent her would you. You want a life of overworrying"" *because she's still recovering shes only been going to school for a couple hours when she's up to it... I felt really hurt and tried to say dont worry u won't understand and end the conversation.. he went on and i said he was being unsupportive and insensitive... he went mad when I said this then blew up and demanded I pay back money he gifted me towards the kids Xmas presents, money i never asked for but he insisted he wanted to help. I then did transfer it back to his account..

I dont know what I'm asking here but am I right to feel upset.. I'm already feeling emotionally drained with what's going on with my daughter so maybe its me being too sensitive?

OP posts:
Createusername · 18/12/2020 07:30

Thank you all
Still holding it together.. just. I have moments where I just cry Sad but thinking of how shitty he acted towards me (and there's many more) helps me stay strong.
My daughter is feeling poorly again, she's due to see a Dr today to see if the new infection has cleared or not Sad

OP posts:
Blanca87 · 18/12/2020 07:56

Sorry to hear but your daughter, you really need to focus on her and not give this guy the head space. Your daughter needs your full attention not a distracted mum.

Blanca87 · 18/12/2020 07:56

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Honeyroar · 18/12/2020 08:06

Sorry about your daughter not feeling well. Hope the Dr can get her feeling better for Xmas. Keep your chin up.x

itsoffical · 18/12/2020 08:52

Please just focus on supporting your daughter.
This terrible episode has actually been a wonderful thing of you manage to get away and keep away from the horrific guy you were seeing.

Do the freedom programme, don't get into a relationship like that again.
That's the best thing you can do to improve your and your family's lives.

incognitomum · 18/12/2020 15:55

I hope dd is ok.

BNQFBI · 17/01/2021 11:26

How's things now Create? Hope you managed to have a nice Xmas.

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