We had an argument ,i apologised but he hasn't,could you be bothered?

[poollo]

Only been seeing him again 6 months(know him previously )
We had a argument when he was drunk and he said some nasty things (acid tongue)
So I told him I wanted nothing more to do with him in heat of moment.
He immediately blocked me on his phone so I couldn't get a message through.
3 weeks later I messaged him on messenger and he basically blamed me for the whole thing (it wasn't my fault but he won't ever admit blame )
So I just apologised.
He still didn't unblock me.
So I messaged him again Sunday night and we were talking normal.
One of his responses was "I knew you would keep popping back up "
We haven't spoke since yesterday morning but he still has me blocked on his phone but is messaging on messenger so confused why keep me blocked.
Would you bother ?
Can I be bothered with this crap?

Is being with a rude, unapologetic, egotistical man what you want for the rest of your life?!? Stop messaging him and block him!

Oh my god, find some self respect and walk the fuck away from this loser.

Depends how desperate you are really. You've already managed to message him twice despite being blocked and him not being interested...

Well he's right you do just keep popping up.

You want him, he clearly doesn't want you.

@cuddlymunchkin

Well he's right you do just keep popping up.

You want him, he clearly doesn't want you.

True

Why are you bothering with him OP? I just feel like your self esteem is in the gutter

@user182639104

Oh my god, find some self respect and walk the fuck away from this loser.

This fgs

Umm
Find your self respect and block him back. For goodness sake.

When we were seeing each other previously he did the same.
After two weeks of me messaging he unblocks me on his phone and tells me I'm unblocked.
He plays stupid games like this.
He knows I will be waiting for him to unblock me but he waits a bit.
When I messaged him last week.
He had screenshots from our conversations months ago where I said something and needed to apologise for.
In WhatsApp he typed the words "I'm sorry" then screenshotted them and showed me them.

I might if he was Chris Hemsworth. Actually, no, I still wouldn't.

(I'm sure Chris Hemsworth is lovely.)

He typed "I'm sorry" in the search bar to bring up old conversations I meant (sorry half asleep)
Then screenshot them to show me how many times I was wrong previously

@poollo

When we were seeing each other previously he did the same. After two weeks of me messaging he unblocks me on his phone and tells me I'm unblocked. He plays stupid games like this. He knows I will be waiting for him to unblock me but he waits a bit. When I messaged him last week. He had screenshots from our conversations months ago where I said something and needed to apologise for. In WhatsApp he typed the words "I'm sorry" then screenshotted them and showed me them.

Oh good God. Why do you even need to ask us this question? What is the point of him?

He knows I will be waiting for him to unblock me??
Assuming you are an actual adult, this is quite pathetic. Just stop!!

"intermittent reinforcement"

This could go on for years.
Really.

Please, just block him and move on with your life.
Do you really want to live the next few years in this situation?

Why are you giving this jerk headspace?

Nope I want a much better 2021 (covid permitting) so basically leave him alone and don't go begging for someone not worth begging for.

This sounds harsh, but I can't believe there are women that desperate!! Or are you 12 years old?

Start 2021 by raising your standards regarding relationships and working on your self respect.
I'd put money on the fact that this is not your only low quality relationship.

One of his responses was "I knew you would keep popping back up"

He thinks you're so desperate for him, you'll keep chasing him and crawling. Demonstrate how wrong he is by cutting him out and sticking to it.

Unless you enjoy feeding his ego and playing mind games please have some self respect and walk away.

@poollo

He typed "I'm sorry" in the search bar to bring up old conversations I meant (sorry half asleep) Then screenshot them to show me how many times I was wrong previously

Why on earth would you want to have anything to do with someone as childish and pathetic as this?

@poollo

Nope I want a much better 2021 (covid permitting) so basically leave him alone and don't go begging for someone not worth begging for.

So have you blocked him now?

Women in one sided 'relationships' like this tend not to block, as they get a rush when the original blocker unblocks and deigns to message the blockee.

They live in hope that the blocker will suddenly morph into a decent human being, and also realise that the blockee is 'the one'.

Prove me wrong OP and block the fuck out of him!

I don't understand why he behaves so immature.
Tit for tat so to speak

@poollo

I don't understand why he behaves so immature. Tit for tat so to speak

You don't need to try to understand him. Just ditch the big baby.