We had an argument ,i apologised but he hasn't,could you be bothered?

[poollo]

Only been seeing him again 6 months(know him previously )
We had a argument when he was drunk and he said some nasty things (acid tongue)
So I told him I wanted nothing more to do with him in heat of moment.
He immediately blocked me on his phone so I couldn't get a message through.
3 weeks later I messaged him on messenger and he basically blamed me for the whole thing (it wasn't my fault but he won't ever admit blame )
So I just apologised.
He still didn't unblock me.
So I messaged him again Sunday night and we were talking normal.
One of his responses was "I knew you would keep popping back up "
We haven't spoke since yesterday morning but he still has me blocked on his phone but is messaging on messenger so confused why keep me blocked.
Would you bother ?
Can I be bothered with this crap?

Find a semi-decent counsellor and find out.

So have you blocked him now then?

@poollo

Most people would have blocked him the moment he blocked me. Not continued to message and give him the ego boost. I don't know why I do it.

You don't need to know why you do it. What you need to do is stop doing it. Block him, get on with your life, find something much better to do with it.

Yep been blocked and I deffo won't message on messenger either.

Well done! when you feel the urge to message, come here instead.

You'll eventually feel much better and stronger without that twat pissing you about.

Imagine him keep looking to see if you've messaged and finding........Nothing!

With better boundaries, you'll find a man who deserves you, and treats you well.

@poollo

Yep been blocked and I deffo won't message on messenger either.

But have you blocked him?

Love - block him and move on. There is no happiness here.

However, there is no happiness in anyone else like this either. I second finding a counsellor and working out why you are attracted to losers. You sound young (I hope you are) - don't let this be your life.

Sounds like he's enjoying you chasing after him with the constant texting and apologising. You need to just stop and move on, you don't need someone like that in your life.

@poollo

Yep been blocked and I deffo won't message on messenger either.

Do you mean you have blocked him?

Or just that he's blocked you again?

Sorry I meant ive now blocked him too

@poollo

Sorry I meant ive now blocked him too

Oh fab! Well done. Delete his number too so you aren't tempted. And you do need to do some work to figure out why you've been begging / chasing someone who has treated you with such disdain before you start dating again. It will be worth it as otherwise you'll keep doing this.

You can self refer to talking therapies free.

Google
NHS talking therapies (your Borough)

Look at the website baggage reclaim
There is some great stuff on there.

Start treating yourself with care from now.

And be careful OP, they always come back for another round.

Well done OP. Take care of yourself and move on from him. You are worth more than that

Grow some pride. Stop grovelling to him and hoping he will talk and take you back.

Stop messaging this person. Move on. He's not a catch at all. Much better put there

@poollo

Sorry I meant ive now blocked him too

Brilliant. Aren't you enjoying the thought of his bafflement when you don't come chasing after him?

I hope you're now going to go out and start enjoying yourself without this waste of time.

Well done op. Keep him blocked and move on.

He sounds like an immature dickhead. Why would you want that in your life?????

@poollo

Only been seeing him again 6 months(know him previously ) We had a argument when he was drunk and he said some nasty things (acid tongue) So I told him I wanted nothing more to do with him in heat of moment. He immediately blocked me on his phone so I couldn't get a message through. 3 weeks later I messaged him on messenger and he basically blamed me for the whole thing (it wasn't my fault but he won't ever admit blame ) So I just apologised. He still didn't unblock me. So I messaged him again Sunday night and we were talking normal. One of his responses was "I knew you would keep popping back up " We haven't spoke since yesterday morning but he still has me blocked on his phone but is messaging on messenger so confused why keep me blocked. Would you bother ? Can I be bothered with this crap?

You are the one creating the crap OP

OP has now blocked him having seen what was going on.
It's not always apparent when you are in it.

Well done OP.
You might still need support so look at the suggestions on the thread.