So I’ve been with my partner many years and cheating was never something that’s gone through my mind.
Last night my partners phone started pinging constantly and so loud it was a noise I’ve never heard come from his phone before. He was in the bathroom and i just picked up the phone to see what it was and on the Home Screen is said a woman’s name on Instagram was trying to video call him. I just put it back down and it stopped ringing after abit. I remembered the name and i searched it up on Instagram private account but a young woman probably around our age or Little younger. I couldn’t see much more. They aren’t friends on Instagram either.
When he came from the bathroom I said “your phone was going off it sounded like you got loads of messages in a row” which it did, I wanted to see what he said. He said he didn’t know what the noise was said it does it sometimes and he doesn’t get a notification 👀.
My question is.. is it dodgy and what would you do going forward ? Honestly I want to wait it out and do some investigating before I approach him because with little evidence he could sweep it under the carpet.