DP has donating his sperm!

[Keaneno1fan]

So here’s a new one to mumsnet i think!

So whilst snooping which I know was wrong (as DP has form for dating sites), I discovered numerous emails to women talking about ivf treatment (discussing our own). Saw emails saying he had already donated ... and another saying ok well I’ll leave you to it blah blah as if a discussion about donation. There were loads of emails on an email account I didnt know about.

I just cant take it in.

Is this the same guy that fathered your donor egg baby? Maybe that gave him the idea!

So he has been donating privately? Not going through a clinic? And didn't tell you. And has a secret email account which he uses to arrange donations?

Op, I think you need to get away from this man.

I stopped after you said he has form for dating sites.

Is this really the relationship you want to be in?

So he's trawling ivf forums and saying he's already donated and offering/hinting he'll donate to them? I hope I have that wrong because that is really creepy to target women who may be desperate/vulnerable like that!

Form for dating sites = LTB

So he's a cheater who's now fathering children behind your back. I presume that makes him an ex partner now?

I’ve no idea whether its through a clinic or privately. I suspect the latter.

I’m just so sad for my darling child and flabbergasted frankly why he’d do such a thing - seems such a bizarre thing to do.

I will get my ducks in a row and make my preparations to move on. We’re not married at least so don’t have to go through another divorce.

So devastating.