I just wanted opinions on whether or not it was normal to say the above to someone.
I’ve been married 16 years - actually I would quite like to have left at several times during that period but I don’t feel capable of doing so.
Dh has always said ‘you’re never allowed to leave me’ ‘promise on the dc lives you won’t keave me’ ‘you’ve got to stay with me forever.’ Puts his arms round me and says ‘this is the ring of steel.’
I know there’s no such thing as ‘allowed’ to leave someone but it makes me feel uncomfortable nevertheless.
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‘You’re never allowed to leave me.’
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Paintedunicorn · 19/11/2020 07:31
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