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Girl I like hung up on me, help!!!

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Matto13 · 18/11/2020 19:09

I met a beautiful girl 3 weeks ago in tinder and she added me on Instagram... We have been chatting every day so last week I decided to ask her out so I did and she said yes. As we're in lockdown she suggested to go for a drive through coffee as everything is closed. So Sunday I picked her up and we went for a coffee and chatted for 2 hours it was lovely.
After the date I dropped her off and when I got home I messaged her askwif she would like to see me again, she said yes so the next day Monday we made arrangements to meet this Friday for a nice walk.... We. Didn't speak much from then on really as she said she's been busy but Tuesday I decided to call her and she said her brother took an overdose of 20 tablets and was in hospital.. I offered to help and said I hope he's OK... In the evening I sent a voice note message as we seem to do that the most and she replied saying he's out of hospital and he discharged himself and she's keeping an eye on him at home.
So today I sent a few messages which she read and didn't reply so I called her and she seemed rude which I can understand and from the stress and she said she's on another call with her mate and she will call me back.
Me being stupid rang again after 30 mins and she buttoned me (hung up) I haven't tried to call or message since this morning so I'm Scared if I call she will do the same......what should I do I really like her she's honestly lovely but I don't want to be needy.
Should I send a voice note as a call may be rejected and a text message can be to much.... Im 37 she's 29....im gutted if she rejects me now

OP posts:
BMW6 · 20/11/2020 17:55

Seriously OP, you've completely blown it. Do not contact her again in any shape or form. Learn from this and move on.

CharlotteRose90 · 21/11/2020 00:26

Seriously delete her number and don’t message her. I actually think the brother thing was an excuse rather then her saying I’m not interested. Please get your self respect and move on.

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