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Was this abuse?

4 replies

Grompf · 15/11/2020 05:51

I can't remember my exact age, but I think it was between the ages of 5 and 9 years old...there are several incidents, my female cousin who was a few years older than me used to get me to perform sexual acts on her. I went along with it as it made me me feel accepted and loved as I generally had a toxic relationship with my parents who made me feel worthless and I am now NC with. Cousin is now happy, has husband and children and has never acknowledged what happened. I never wanted to bring this up and rock the boat as I don't think others would believe me but it's eating me up that she's got away with it...She acts so smug about her wonderful life!

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spidermomma · 15/11/2020 06:15

Oh op that's awful. If she made you do them things that is abuse, are you close with her now?

AlwaysCheddar · 15/11/2020 06:33

Of course it was. Why would you think it was normal?

nolovelost · 15/11/2020 10:24

Sounds like she was being abused herself. Have you ever had any suspicion about her parents?

letsmakethishappen · 15/11/2020 12:00

Definitely sexual abuse

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