Have posted on here before.Cut long story. Partner put me through the torment of saying he didnt want "this: anymore. Was taunting me that he had someone else anyway.Laughing and generally being horrible.Later found out he had been messaging ex from years ago and saying how horrible I was and she was giving him a shoulder to cry on! (mother of his grown up child) deleted it all before I could see. I think he was going to leave us as was adamant he was selling house (in his name) and moving back down south.We have two children together. Then he went back to normal, wanted to make it work etc when I made it clear he couldn't just sell our home. Anyway it hasnt been easy and I feel I was doing best for kids. They seemed happier. Hasnt been easy. Anyway fast forward,i saw on FB last night that he had looked at profile of his ex only couple of weeks ago. So shocked. Confronted him and he said he wasn't sure why he done it. Makes me so angry. I cant be sure that ages ago it hadnt gone further as he took off a few times on own for weekend in a strop. Apparently to stay at his mums. He treated me so bad at the time. Name calling etc. I got the feeling that you dont overnight decide to sell home and leave family unless your head has been turned by someone and more than texts have taken place. He was so detached and totally emotionless to the hurt he was causing. Anyway he cant believe how I'm reacting about the text.. he said if my ex popped up on FB he is sure I could look. Turning it round on me. Havent seen nor heard from my ex for over 10 years. His ex had been saying they should get back together and that they were only young at time. I'm so angry. Not sure why I'm posting. I know FB and all that Is sp childish but just the fact he has looked at her profile makes me distrust him all over again. Hes sitting here watching tv and I'm boiling up inside. It might not be alot to some people but after the shit he pulled months back I am so angry. He said he didnt think it was such a big deal. Also said ages ago that if it were the other way round he would be gone.
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