Does it really matter whether someone is sleeping with his wife, or if he's going through a bad patch in his marriage?
The point is, is that he is married, it is not the ow's responsibility to decide whether the husband is telling the truth or not, it's irrelavant.
He's married.... move along.
I can hear undertones of 'if you can't beat them join em' mentality, as though it is sign of strength to act as un emotionally as men.
You view it as a sport thats rather good fun and so long as it doesn't hurt you its ok.
This is what men want you to buy into, Iv'e seen it in male dominated workplaces..... it's only banter, nobody will know, it's just a bit of fun, stop being so uptight.....right I'm in there.
It's conditioning on a grand scale by men.
They love nothing better than coming across a woman who cannot stand their ground.
That is strength.... a woman that has her own boundaries and respect for other women, you are disrespecting youselves in order to buy into this male idealism of spreading it about.
@Chewwithyourfuckingmouthclosed sisterhood may be dead to you but have you asked youself why?
Men love to devide and conquer, when women have a voice they do not like it, when women unite it scares them and spoils their dominance over our sex.
If men didn't want affairs to be commonplace don't you think the male dominated laws of this land would be changed to make it illegal to have affairs outside of marriage.
Hell they even have you fighting their battles for them on mumsnet.