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He did cheat on me

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Leanne1191 · 12/11/2020 16:04

Hello everyone!

I was on here back in July because my husband come back weird from working away for 11 days, I can confirm 3 weeks ago I found out he had cheated while working away with the resort manager and was still seeing her when he come back home too me.

Just want to thank you all for your support back then, even if I was naive and stupid to not believe it in the first place.

OP posts:
Leanne1191 · 13/11/2020 09:20

@whataday12

Oh my god op I commented in your thread back then . I hope your ok ❤️ I know it may not seem like it at all now but everything will get better for you now . What a twat x
I feel fine. I'm just glad I know I was not crazy as I was going out of my mind! I feel so much better for knowing the truth! Makes me realise what a lie the last 8 years were really! Also how much of a lie our wedding was last year!
OP posts:
Leanne1191 · 13/11/2020 09:21

@beenwhereyouare

So sorry; it sounded bad at the time but I hoped for your and the children's sake it was something else.

I may have missed it, but please get an STI check as soon as possible. And what a shit he is that he's not remorseful!

I am, I'm getting and sti check! Makes me feel sick how he could sleep with three women at the same time 🤢 pure scum.
OP posts:
Leanne1191 · 13/11/2020 09:21

@Bathbrush

I’m glad you kicked him out, that shows so much strength from you. He’s a total prick and you deserve so much better.
Yeah he's gone, no going back and I will be divorcing his ass! 💪🏻
OP posts:
Leanne1191 · 13/11/2020 09:22

@Weenurse

“Still sleeping with me and another woman” get yourself an STI check if not done so already. Also flowers or chocolate for whoever it was that told you. Has he gone from the home?
Yeah he don't live with me and the kids hasn't done since his change of heart when he come back from working away! I will be getting checked don't worry about that 😊
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cherryappl · 13/11/2020 09:25

I'm sorry that's happened to you. Well done for sticking up for yourself your so amazingly strong I wish I could be like you my boyfriend has cheated on me loads of times And could never leave him Your better of without him and he can't hurt you again

youvegottenminuteslynn · 13/11/2020 12:19

@cherryappl

I'm sorry that's happened to you. Well done for sticking up for yourself your so amazingly strong I wish I could be like you my boyfriend has cheated on me loads of times And could never leave him Your better of without him and he can't hurt you again
I hope you find the strength to leave him. Take inspiration from women like OP - it's so hard to do but so worth it. You don't have to spend your life with someone who hurts you so badly Thanks
cherryappl · 13/11/2020 12:39

@youvegottenminuteslynn thanks 💞 we're actually due a baby next week so doesn't make things easy haha but if he cheats on me again I will leave him this time because I'm not going to be that girl with a baby Getting cheated on I will definitely Round up the courage this time

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