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Anyone else out there loving there men hairy?

101 replies

Lovingthemanhair · 05/11/2020 12:08

Name changed for this...

In a new relationship and he is quite hairy on the arms and chest and I’m loving it. A few of my friends think it’s a turn off but I’m liking it. Never had such a hairy man before.

Anyone else?

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gindinner · 05/11/2020 14:00

I don't mind a little, not into excessively hairy men though.

Usernameisgone · 05/11/2020 14:01

My partner has a hairy chest I love it, call it my winter rug 😂
I shave his back as we live in a warm country so he is mostly shirtless or in a vest!

lobster8 · 05/11/2020 14:09

Love a hairy man, my partner has a full rug - hairy chest and stomach, it's very bloody cosy. I love slightly hairy hands. And beards. And hairy arms and legs.

Sadly in my experience this does always come with a hairy back but I'll take that over a hairless man any day.

JurassicParkaha · 05/11/2020 14:16

Hairy chests are my weakness! Forearms and legs too, but NOT on the back.

Cannot stand shaved/waxed anything on a man though.

bigpurplefuryknickers · 05/11/2020 14:28

I love a hairy man & I married one 🐻
I find it very sexy & masculine. How a man should be imo.

Crystal87 · 05/11/2020 14:30

No, I like a bit of hair on the chest and stomach but not loads. Once had an ex who had hair even on his bum cheeks and it was a first .I hate when a man shaves his pubes though.

WitsEnding · 05/11/2020 14:33

Love it. Very masculine, and hairy backs don’t bother me at all.

SimonJT · 05/11/2020 14:39

@Crystal87

No, I like a bit of hair on the chest and stomach but not loads. Once had an ex who had hair even on his bum cheeks and it was a first .I hate when a man shaves his pubes though.
I once experienced a bum that was so hairy that when I ran my hands along his bum my fingers got stuck in the hair knots 🤣
Metallicalover · 05/11/2020 14:39

Love it! My husband is hairy and I find it very masculine. Known him from being a young teen so he wasn't hairy when I met him! Haha!
I would never ask a man to shave for me, if he really wanted to shave then he can for him!
All these people saying they couldn't deal with a hairy back? Wtf! If someone's a lovely person but has a hair back you would be like nope!??

maras2 · 05/11/2020 14:40

My DH of over 50 years could give a Silverback Gorilla a run for their money.
I love it even though he's more than silver these days.
Admittedly, I have nothing to compare him with as was only 15 when we got together so my one and only Blush

AbiBrown · 05/11/2020 14:43

Love it! I'm quite hairy myself and am a massive hypocrite as I had laser done years ago but I do also champion hairy women (within reason :D)

Lovingthemanhair · 05/11/2020 14:58

Oh my god laughing at some of these comments.

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Saladfingersscaresme · 05/11/2020 15:24

If I like a man I don’t care how hairy or non hairy he is, what I find a massive turn off is a man who waxes or a man who has a bald pubic region but has a hairy belly, it looks bizarre Confused

VivaMiltonKeynes · 05/11/2020 15:26

@JamieFrasersSwingingKilt

Yup, I love my hairy husband! He's getting hairier as he ages too. He always had a hairy chest (which mesmerises me) but now his tummy is hairy. His back is becoming hairier too. Can't say I find that sexy but I love the bones of him so welcome being able to run my fingers through his back hair as well as his chest hair, as we grow old together! :)
They are his angel wings 😂
VivaMiltonKeynes · 05/11/2020 15:26

@Saladfingersscaresme

If I like a man I don’t care how hairy or non hairy he is, what I find a massive turn off is a man who waxes or a man who has a bald pubic region but has a hairy belly, it looks bizarre Confused
I do like a trim in that area , bit of manscaping !
whynotwhen · 05/11/2020 15:36

My ex was so so so hairy. But also a fitness model so would shave his entire body so was constantly in a stubbly state. Including at the base of his penis which could be quite sore during sex. He was sooooo sexy and handsome though. And very beardy.
His body looked amazing freshly shaved, can't say I ever saw him with more than stubble though as he was forever shaving so I can't comment on whether or not I'd find him sexy fully hairy.

planningaheadtoday · 05/11/2020 15:43

YES. I find it really masculine and desirable.....luckily for my extremely hairy husband.

He's quite wary of his body hair having been put down in his past for being so hairy. I'm not sure he quite believes how much I love it.

BurtonHouse · 05/11/2020 16:05

Oh yes, gotta be a bear. I can't imagine snuggling up to a smooth hairless man or kissing one without a beard. Might as well be with a woman.

nobodysdaughter · 05/11/2020 16:25

My man has a hairy back AND is ginger. He's FIT.

lollipoprainbow · 05/11/2020 16:47

Yes definitely !! Especially a hairy chests, smooth/bald men don't do it for me sadly.

Zolaanna · 05/11/2020 16:53

I do have to pluck my husband's eyebrows Grin but just to tame them not so they're shaped!
My husband looks kinda the spit of the quantum leap actor and certainly the same eyebrows so you probably see why I'd need to check in with the brows once in a while.

I am also a massive fan of a big nose too. He's dark, with dark features and a big ...nose.
I'm the complete opposite and very fair, and a small nose.
Definitely opposite attracts.

I actually think I'm far less conscious of my body hair now I'm in my mid 30s and I've got a hairy husband. Also it's so much healthier not to wax and shave all the time.

SoulofanAggron · 05/11/2020 16:54

what I find a massive turn off is a man who waxes or a man who has a bald pubic region but has a hairy belly, it looks bizarre

@Saladfingersscaresme They do it to try and make their knobs look bigger, of course.

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davekim · 05/11/2020 18:11

Love body hair and beards. Wont even contemplate anything else!

Shayisgreat · 05/11/2020 18:14

My DH is very hairy. I love it. I was with a man 10 years ago who shaved everything off and I found it such a turn off.