My husband had an affair a while ago. It was messy, and he pretty much lied about the whole thing. It took contacting the other woman to get some of the details, but I never got all of them. He was living away for work, and honestly there is no way of me ever knowing what happened because he won't tell me. I have had a persistent infection in my female parts. I asked my gp to check it out, and she told me it was most likely thrush, even after I told her of my husband's affair. I saw 2 other gps in the same practice and they never asked me to do a swab. I am not originally from here, so I wasn't sure what I should do. Well I recently went for my pap smear, and told the nurse my symptoms, and she did a bunch of swabs and it turns out I have Clamidia. And I am angry on so many levels, the fact that it took the nurse to take me seriously, the fact that my husband lied and continues to lie(I called him and said you need to be honest with me. Did you use protection, did your ck touch her **) no no no I am so angry and just want to leave the bastard but we have 2 kids and leaving means the I will have to leave the country.