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Phone search history

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Lille2 · 02/11/2020 20:35

I have been in a relationship for the past 7 years with this man and I really need advice. I found on his search history in his phone after he’d been away for a night with work and they all got pretty wasted. Next evening he was home and I looked at his phone, yes I know it’s wrong etc but I am glad I did as I found he’d been searching for Trans escorts or gay meets. Now I am in utter turmoil. He’s just admitted he was drunk and he’s not gay but I don’t know what to think.

OP posts:
WizardOfAus · 02/11/2020 21:29

He’s gay.

ReneeRol · 02/11/2020 21:31

Straight men aren't into that.

MrsSpringfield · 02/11/2020 21:33

Ok this is the 3rd thread I've seen tonight on someone's partner sleeping with a trans person behind their back.
... unusual. Hmm

Hesfamousforit · 02/11/2020 21:38

@MrsSpringfield

Ok this is the 3rd thread I've seen tonight on someone's partner sleeping with a trans person behind their back. ... unusual. Hmm
I was thinking that also
IJustWantSomeBees · 04/11/2020 14:20

A lot of threads like this one as of late

Skyla2005 · 04/11/2020 18:50

A straight man would not do that. What he searches for is what his into sorry op

Dontletitbeyou · 05/11/2020 08:49

Straight man wouldn’t look up trans escort or gay meet ups no matter how wasted they were . Maybe being drunk gave him the courage to consider it .
Think about it , at your most wasted have you ever searched for lesbian escorts . I’m assuming not

Rockinmomma · 05/11/2020 09:11

Oh for goodness sake, it does not mean he’s gay! He could be bi sexual, bi curious or have been wasted and him and his mates thought it would be hilarious to google gay escorts. Men can be a bit twatty when they’re drunk together!
OP, if you trust him and believe him then just keep communication open, talk about how it’s made you feel

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