Any advice for this would be greatly appreciated.
My boyfriend has always been a heavy drinker, he doesn’t go out all the time but when he does there has been times where he hasn’t come back for hours after the bars are shut. I’ve often wondered about this but he has said he’s been at a friends or just wandering around drunk. Stupidly I accepted this and didn’t think anything else of it. However last week I lost my mobile so he gave me his old one, when setting it up it was still signed into his emails so rightly or wrongly (I know a lot of people will curse me for this) I had a look and saw that he had been using a website called fab guys, shocked and out of curiosity I clicked into the email and it allowed me access into the account. There was his profile, no face pictures but a picture of you know what!
I started reading the messages and the times he had been on there had been when he was drunk, some of them were just random messages like hey but one of them was from a man who said do you want to meet again, I replied again??? And the man replied yes we have met before, i said when and he said about a month or so ago. This does tie in with a night out he had.
Now I know I shouldn’t have done this but I’m now questioning my whole relationship. Has he cheated on me.....I’m quite sure, how I don’t know, and is he gay?? On his profile it says bi curious!
I’m just so confused, we have been in a mostly loving relationship and I’m so shocked!l