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Why do people stare and laugh at learning disabled people?

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User1993 · 19/10/2020 19:17

When I’m out and about with my girlfriend I’ve noticed people staring, smirking and laughing at her. Why do people do this? It’s very nasty from them. It’s just also random strangers doing this. And also has this happened to you?

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Opaljewel · 19/10/2020 19:26

That's horrible o.p I've no idea why they are laughing at your girlfriend. They are obviously very ugly on the inside to be so callous. Does your girlfriend get upset or does she not notice?

IHateCoronavirus · 19/10/2020 19:29

As pp said, it is something uncomfortable inside themselves.

BlueThistles · 19/10/2020 19:29

wear on earth do people treat others as such ? this is awful 🌺

User1993 · 19/10/2020 19:35

Thankfully she doesn’t notice most of the time. But it does annoy me at some of the stares and sniggers she gets from the strangers, some of them being middle aged.

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User1993 · 19/10/2020 19:36

She also doesn’t feel like leaving home because of the stares and laughs etc. Sad

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satnighttakeaway · 19/10/2020 19:37

There are all kinds of nasty people in the world, how knows why they do what they do

How do they know your girlfriend has learning difficulties, are these people you know?

CatsAndEyeliner · 19/10/2020 19:41

I’m so sorry you’ve had such a horrible experience. I used to support people with learning difficulties and I have to I say that I’ve never seen this. The occasional stare but never laughing. Is something specific happening when they laugh?

User1993 · 19/10/2020 19:42

They are not of people I know of, but she does have a short height and child features (small hands etc) but it annoys me of their pure ignorance.

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RedDiamond · 19/10/2020 19:47

I think in this World of ours, some people are just born to be nasty, sarcastic and shallow. Feel sorry for them because the life you are leading is so much better then theirs. Their attitude would have been taught or ingrained in them. Not nice.

OverTheRainbow88 · 19/10/2020 19:47

I find kids tend to stare at the unknown. Very disappointing adults are also doing this.

Opaljewel · 19/10/2020 19:48

If someone judges on the outside, they aren't worth knowing. Hold your head high and walk past these idiots. You can't change idiots like this unfortunately. But don't let them spoil it for you!

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