DP cross there's no food - part 2

[droopyears]

I didn't realise I'd have to start a new thread - it's amazing the amount of people that have offered advice / made me laugh, it's appreciated

It was the strangest thing! Yes Yeo Valley yoghurts and milk

I've not been able to change the locks but I've double locked the door this afternoon, as he doesn't have a key for the bottom lock

I do however, have his bike at mine (which won't fit in my car, only his)

What a knobber!!!!!!

He didn't understand it was already done 🤣

if it happens again then 'he's done'

Ha ha ha

Reply: we’ll it won’t happen again, because we’re already done.

Your shit is packed into my car ready to go to your sisters, or you can collect it from the drive.

He sounds pretty deluded! What does he think you are getting from this relationship?

DéjàDone

@Drinkingallthewine

Do a thumbs up.

Then block.

Always the best response in any arsehole engagement experience

Don't do who dis. It is stupid, not funny and immature.

What will you reply ?

What an absolute tool!

@SunshineCake

Don't do who dis. It is stupid, not funny and immature.

What will you reply ?

Was just a joke.

Wondering if the best response is. I response actually

@droopyears has already texted his sister to collect his shit, and that’s kind of all that needs saying

Haaaaa what a tosser.

Hope you can come up with something suitably cutting to reply.

Like "I'm tired of this shit too so your shit is on the drive in a bin bag"

Exactly @MzHz - he's probably heard from his sister and is shitting himself and realised he's about to lose his meal ticket. The silent treatment hasn't worked and his control is slipping so he's making a threat to make her toe the line again.

Too late buddy, sorry!

I would reply.." already there, your stuff is in my car and will be dropped to your sister's. Do not contact me or my children again".

OP, you have a great future ahead of you without this mean, nasty user in your life.

You also will have more money invariably at your disposal.

Well done.

He really thinks he is gods gift doesn't he??? Like you are going to bow and scrape for his forgiveness?

I hope you replied something cutting. Rooting for you OP.

Fair enough, @MzHz. Apologies. It is used a lot and sometimes it really isn't the right thing to say. In this case you are probably right.

@SunshineCake

Fair enough, *@MzHz*. Apologies. It is used a lot and sometimes it really isn't the right thing to say. In this case you are probably right.

Absolutely no issue at all! It’s hard to tell someone’s writing a post that’s tongue in cheek

And my last post was corrected by phone - I meant to say wonder if best response was no response

This bloke, token thief really is a “gift” that keeps giving eh?

I've not replied yet. Oh the irony of it, telling me we'll be done if I carry on, when in fact we are done already

Am curious to know what my 'shit' is (I won't ask)

Is it acceptable to have a glass of wine at 5pm mid-week?

is this the first time you have pulled him up on anything, because 'so fed up of your shit' sounds as if the poor fool has had to suffer years of ongoing abuse.

really showing his true colours here, its amazing how quickly he turned given the free ride he has had. It really shows his level of entitlement.

Im guessing that his message is supposed to frighten you into backing down and returning to the status quo. He is going to be seriously taken aback to realise that you have had enough.

expect another quick turnaround when he realises his meal ticket has just expired

Totally acceptable - you deserve it - enjoy your wonderful new life 💐

'your shit' was the fact that you actually challenged him on his behaviour and expected him to behave like a human being.

Hahaha what a knob! I bet he's fuming. Enjoy your wine OP

Sounds like the trash has literally taken itself out.

Slightly unrelated, but its always worth educating yourself on the ins and outs of the console / PC games your kids play. If kids are going online without you, you need to know how to check on what they're doing.

Oh, and from experience, be prepared for the inevitable accusation that you've been cheating.

Because obviously what possible other explanation could there be for you not wanting him anymore?

Definitely a good time for a glass of wine!

Maybe he tried to contact ds2 and found himself blocked. Just ignore his text and take the stuff to his sisters/mums. If you can fit the bike as well take that and chain it outside his sisters house too. Wine AFTER the work.

You are going to be fine. More than fine. If you wobble remember Yeo Valley.

I think you need a glass of wine, sit in front of the fire, glass of wine in hand and text him back something short and sassy like 'I think you'll find we're done already'