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11 replies

SissyLongStockings · 11/10/2020 23:46

My ex and I broke up in April. If I updated my WhatsApp status he would view it all the time. I joined OLD site about a month ago and last week I changed my WhatsApp status and he looked. Fine. One evening I was swiping on this site and one of his best mates came up. Obviously I swiped left clearly not interested in going down that route. But I changed my status again the other day and he didn't look and hasn't looked since. What was he playing at?

OP posts:
leolion1 · 11/10/2020 23:52

He decided it's time to move on and deleted your number?

Moonshinemisses · 11/10/2020 23:56

He's moved on

Aquamarine1029 · 11/10/2020 23:58

You broke up, why do you care? Block him on everything and move on.

Wheelerdeeler · 12/10/2020 00:00

Are you 12?

Twillow · 12/10/2020 00:18

Honestly, ask yourself why you are even asking this question. Do you get a thrill out of knowing he looks at your social media? He's an ex and it doesn't matter what he does.

SissyLongStockings · 12/10/2020 05:34

@Wheelerdeeler you don't have to be rude. If you have nothing helpful to say then don't say anything at all

OP posts:
Gingernaut · 12/10/2020 05:51

You've split up.

Block him.

Get on with your life. Stop giving him head space.

anotherhumanfemale · 12/10/2020 05:56

How do you know if someone looked at your whatsapp status? I've never been told anybody has looked at mine - ever - but maybe nobody has! 😂

Monty27 · 12/10/2020 05:59

OP can't you revise your privacy settings? Unless you're enjoying the attention for some reason. He seems bored with it now anyhow truth be told

DianaT1969 · 12/10/2020 06:16

Did his looking at your status previously, while you were split up, mean something to you?

itchyfinger · 12/10/2020 06:20

Also wondering how you know if someone looked and your whatsapp status? Do you mean the little bit of text that says 'available' 'at the gym' or whatever? People can't view that specifically can they?

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