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Advice needed online relationship

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Lou8280 · 02/10/2020 20:37

Hi, I was hoping to get some advice. I started talking to this guy in July, it was all innocent at first but fairly quickly we progressed to flirting with each other. Now we e-mail every day, I'm pretty sure I've fallen for him, but I have my doubts about him, we've only spoke on the phone twice, he doesn't stay near so we haven't met yet, and any time I try and say how I feel he doesn't respond for hours. He has a lot of issues with his phone, all of this makes me slightly suspicious that he's not being 100% honest but on the flip side we've both told each other things we've never told anyone else and I know exactly where he works he doesn't hide things like that. I'm worried that I'm maybe coming on too strong and maybe that's why he doesn't answer. I don't know what to do. Any advise would be appreciated

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Eckhart · 02/10/2020 20:39

You haven't met yet and already you're posting online for advice because you don't feel you can trust him.

This would not happen with somebody you can have a healthy relationship with. Move onwards and upwards.

CodenameVillanelle · 02/10/2020 20:41

You're having an imaginary relationship. Sorry. You need some perspective!

edwinbear · 02/10/2020 20:43

This isn’t a relationship OP.

TeddyIsaHe · 02/10/2020 20:46

I mean this in the nicest way possible, but you have GOT to love yourself more. You are worth so much more than this. You’ve never met the guy and already questioning what is going on.

My advice would be to stop dating entirely and work on your self worth. Get some counselling and work out you allow men to make you feel this way.

bunnyontheshelf · 02/10/2020 20:53

Fantasy relationship. If he's not dating you, if he's not physically trying to see you, he's nobody.

Aquamarine1029 · 02/10/2020 20:55

This is not a relationship, not by any stretch of the imagination. This entire thing is a load of emotional/fantastical nonsense. Give your head a hard wobble and block him.

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