Been married 16 years. Before marriage we had a very good sex like and I felt attractive. Due to giving up smoking hormone issues and underactive thyroid I've gained weight but still look attractive and always make an effort. My husband falls asleep on the couch most nights. I've told him repeatedly how low and unattractive this makes me feel and how he never initiates physical contact. I told him at the end of July this was now last chance saloon as far as I'm concerned and if he doesn't start putting effort into our relationship including going to bed together I will be off. A couple of months in and he's maybe come to bed about three times